Background
Greek drinking party; Ken = symposiarch or host of a symposium; job to control guests’ drinking (by watering wine); often come together for discussion – each person takes his turn w/o interruption or argument; Plato uses these historical figures as editorial
Greek words used: love – eros; wisdom – sophia

Comments on Speeches
Phaedrus
love is an ancient god; most ancient, most honored, most powerful; set the rules; this love is asymmetrical – older to younger; source of greatest gifts/benefits; preventative power of love against being ashamed, foolish, rash; sacrifice inspired by love is honored by the gods
- Background – Patroclus is cousin and young apprentice of Achilles
- love in Greek culture – common love bet. man and woman; higher love bet. older man and younger man – “apprenticeship-plus” – training them up to be something greater; older one coming to woo apprenticeship of younger – parents would play game of protecting child, older = lover, younger = non-lover/beloved; relationship can be sexual but not always (men are homosexual/bisexual)
- pederasty – Gk, relationship bet. adolescent boy and adult man outside his immediate family
Pausanias
separates into two kinds of love
- vulgar – heterosexual love, attributed to younger Aphrodite
- virtuous – heavenly Aphrodite (older), pederasty, homosexual love (elevating their own custom as best kind), better b/c transfer of wisdom; more than just sexual; shows value of wisdom (spiritual) above physical (Gnostic view of physical as base)
what we see as perversion in our culture was means Greeks used to advance their culture
Eryximachus – the doctor
- expands love beyond just human – universal force (in body, music)
- balance/harmony of opposites (vulgar and virtuous)
- hint of divine – (188D) – love as force for reconciliation between gods and men
(Ken – context – best to be ignored by gods than on either their good or bad side)
- first to bring in the idea of the good and of virtue (temperance, justice)
Aristophanes – comic playwright
Comic playwright of Athens, wrote Clouds (which slanders Socrates and which Socrates blames in part for his demise, see Plato’s Apology)
- originally man had three sexes – double male, double female and androgynous (both male and female)
- androgynous – to explain heterosexual love, longing we have to love someone
- question over what androgyny means in these ancient “double-people”
- love = pursuit of the whole, desire to be complete (193A)
- now we’re half, love is a cure (that heals us)
- no positive heterosexuality (continues to be vulgar)
- misogynistic undertones? is female homosexual love middle tier of three? (lower than male homosexual love)
Agathon – companion of Pausanias, tragic poet, won first prize for tragedy Lenaia
tragic poet, just won prize that drinking party is celebrating (3 days in a row – one tragedy each day and winner of three gets prize); 32 yrs old (Wikipedia)
- makes love youngest god; forever young and tender
- love is delicate, resides in people’s souls (soft places)
- never forces itself
- always beautiful
- love – moral character — moderation, brave, just, wisdom (classic virtues)
- everyone he touches becomes a poet
- we need love so we don’t sink into obscurity; love is high form of community (Ken – obscurity defined as absence of community)
specific lines commented on
- 196D- “he who has the hold is more powerful than he who is held” – interesting point
- just above 197A – can’t give what you don’t have or teach what you don’t know
- 197C – idea of necessity coming before love – dreadful deeds done by gods out of necessity (brute survival)
Socrates
refocuses argument entirely – criticizes others of just attributing all good things to love and instead tries to find truth about love via questions;
why use questions? – aids with progression of logic and taking assumptions to their logical ends and showing their absurdity; questions help engage his opponents
Ken – #1 Socratic principle – only claims that he is wiser in one aspect – that he knows that he doesn’t know, and that is the beginning of wisdom; seeks truth by asking questions of those who claim to know
Argument with Agathon:
- love has an object
- love’s object is something it doesn’t have (or wants to continue to have)
- love seeks beauty, the good
- therefore love is not beautiful or good
Diotima
priestess who Socrates seeks as knowing something about love; from Manitea; could be fictitious; according to legend, kept plague away from Athens for 10 years
- love can be ugly
- love can be neutral; love is in between – a spirit not a god – aligns better with what other speakers were actually saying about god
- Greek word for spirit = daemon (spiritual/non-physical version of demi-god)
- love is intercessor between gods and men; in the middle – connecting force
- knowledge –> desire –> love
- Diotima’s ladder – 210-211 – progression of love – from love of one form/body (outward appearance) and upward to higher loves (of inwards) – from bodies to practices/customs to ideas to absolute beauty
- acc. to Plato, essence of beauty (absolute beauty) is highest form
- researcher: these are the 6 steps of love up ladder, used extensively in Renaissance when discussing Platonic love
- 6 levels: one body, two bodies, all bodies, practices/customs, ideas, absolute beauty
- debate over whether first six speeches mirror these 6 forms of love (introduced by Angie)
Alcibiades
traitor in Peloponnesian War – switched sides multiple times
what is point of his entrance?
- Opinion #1 (John): Plato setting up Socrates as ultimate man, different way of living (Socrates never writes and Plato never appears)
- Opinion #2 (Julie) – Socrates saying that Alcibiades asking for higher form of wisdom from Socrates, already higher on ladder than he realizes
Our Own Love Speeches
Tait
I could really use a case of the hiccups right now.
I agree with Aristophanes, it’s a longing and pursuit of the whole (just don’t think we were split apart), because we were created by God and God is love. Love brings out the best in us, makes us go beyond looking ourselves when we love someone else. Love is sacrificial and makes us go beyond our comfort zone when we have something we love.
Cheryl
I also agreed with Aristophanes, but in a different perspective. When we were as a whole, as Adam and Eve, we were perfect and then we sinned. And now we’re split apart and longing for that wholeness and that love, and that love came as Jesus – keeps us passionate about what we do and how we live our lives – it’s emotion, anger. Love is communication between us and God – we know are able again to communicate with him and be with him because of Jesus.
Megan
Focus on highest love, as agape or spiritual love.
Love is seeker of good, beautiful, but it doesn’t just seek or ask for something, in seeking it also bestows good on its object, as well as the seeker. In seeking abstract essence of beauty, also find beauty and goodness in other forms (physical forms, people cultures), and in doing so, honor and ignoble and impart good to them, the beloved, as well as to the lover.
Ken
Love is an ever transformative force. As Eryximachus said, love complements and brings us together with object of our love (Lover and Beloved come together). Perfects us, as Socrates said, and brings us to our true selves (Lover and Beloved perfect each other). Seventh rung on ladder, love is not just a force but a person, in God. We all become more and more alike as we love and are loved, also becoming more like our true selves (Lover and Beloved are perfected AND come together by the same process).
Julie
Gave me a savior before I knew I needed to be saved
Protective of father, jealous love of brother
I have mate, feel his love, desire to lie next to me at night
Children who confuse I love you with I need you
Friends with whom I laugh and cry
And after all this, one day I might just understand what love is.
Jeff
Inspired by Agathon. Love is ancient, debated through ages. It cannot be grasped or pictures, but can be felt. Make you feel lighter than air. Noble – perhaps ultimate power in this universe. Would have nothing to do if not for love, no entertainment. Love stinks, yeah yeah. Love binds us together, gives us hope, has power to transform us. Can see great examples of love, of sacrifice. True story of WWII concentration camp, someone did wrong and no one would confess, and guards were going to kill everyone, and one man stepped up to take blame and be killed. Love is when one man lays his life down for another. Love is deep and not shallow, so keep reaching for love
Wendy
is an expression of the Creator, the divine. Defined in Creator himself, a commitment – love is patient, kind, etc (I Cor 13 attributes) – we only have ability to love b/c he first loved us. We love him and others b/c of his overwhelming love. B/c God so loved us, we ought to love one another. We cannot see God, but when we love one another we can see Him. Love is sacrifice, for He gave himself . Love not about receiving gain, though we may benefit. We have committed to loving the other – different expression of loves depending on nature of relationships. Sexual love between man and wife. Falling in and out of love, “I love you” only for those you commit to loving forever; love = commitment.
John
Challenged in thinking is Biblical version of love what I believe or what I’ve been told by others. Is it feeling, decision, commitment, is it aspect of being whole? I can see all those things in my personal experience, and considering tonight’s discussion and how we can’t be complete apart from the Lord – why is it that he loves us and suffers and brings us back to Him? Do we complete God – I don’t think so, so brings us back – is it the building up or holding on?
Scott
What beautiful hints of love that love brings out what is honorable, that love imparts, that there is something greater than just body, completes us, cures us. Love is mediating relationship. Love is mediator. Yet desires unfulfilled, desires bent, toward others, eros. Thank goodness that Jesus would come and bring new word – agape – love that settles for nothing less that completeness, fulfillment, our very best. Augustine – love needs to be set in order – cherishes creation, animals, human beings, children, spouses, God – love in each relationship but love set in order – takes least and brings it to greatest.
Angie
As reading this, how do we find what we know of God and find it in this reading. Sacrifice inspired by love honored by gods; force of reconciliation between gods and man. Having the Word, and God is love – moving through speeches from little to more. We know that love is cure. (#5) – Love leads us to highest form of community. And with Socrates, love is highest form of beauty. Seeing words like intercessor, savior, that we use as Christians when pointing to God as love. Ref. 1 Cor. 13. Theme of younger pursuing older — love is servant because love is master – servanthood leads.
Pat
Compare love in ancient Greek society to our society. Birth – 3 yrs – love is called Mommy. From 3 – 20 yrs – love is car, action, play, schooling (male), girlfriends, gossip, schooling (girl); from 20s – love is career or family; by time you reach 50s, love is either about you or about others. When put on Jesus Christ, turns life from fighting and black and white, to living color.
Closing Remarks
Benefit to soul in seeking definitions of what we discuss and seek, to also knowing what is good and what we pursue.